The Biggest Secret of SuccessAug 05, 2022
There are many secrets to help you be successful, but I believe this is one of the most important core secrets to help you be successful in any area of life. It's the power of positivity, or maybe even the power of avoiding negative people.
We all have those days where things don't go our way and we feel negative. That's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about people who have the HABIT of being negative, talking negative, complaining constantly, and always finding the thing that's wrong with something. If you are around these people, no matter how resilient you are, they will drag you down to the point where you aren't successful.
I have been saying lately that you can only achieve your dreams up to the point that you believe them. Your mind is the biggest factor in your success. When we hear all of the amazing stories of people who accomplished things we thought were impossible up to that point, they all have 1 thing in common. They BELIEVED they could do it. They wouldn't allow their mind to go to a negative space or they knew they would fail.
Unfortunately, just getting away from negative people isn't enough. Because the most dangerous negative talk tends to be in our own minds. If you are the one who is negative, you won't be able to combat even the most glorious of praise from those around you. You need to train your mind to correct the negative thoughts. This is the only way to succeed.
The first step you can take in this journey (after you remove yourself from the negative people around you) is to change your language. Instead of being certain you are bad at something, tell yourself you are getting better at it or that you are learning.
The best way to change your actions is to change your thinking. And the best way to change your thinking is to combat the lie with the truth. It's called "displacement". You need to replace those bad habits with good habits, and replace that negative talk with positive talk.
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